Go out and love, it doesn't matter what you define yourself as. Avoiding associating with anyone who may be gay or who seems to lean in that direction if the sufferer is heterosexual. I found that watching LGBT youtubers have helped me determine my own sexual orientation. Some of these techniques include: Listening to minute audio tapes or tape loops about the feared subject.
One further complicating factor in all this is that some obsessive thinkers mistake feelings of anxiety for feelings of sexual arousal.
I think i am gay. Try making friends in your area. When my son was 11, he came out to me and my husband as gay. This quiz was made by an incredibly gay person, so it should be somewhat accurate. Just look for a friend. If you're attracted to both the sexes, then you can be bisexual.
Change color. Maybe five years from now he will identify as straight. Are you questioning whether you might be gay?
While only you can know for sure what your sexuality is, my simple quiz can help you get a better idea. You can also check out the drag show clubs or google lesbian clubs down there. We live in a pretty rural area, and though everyone he has told has been incredibly supportive, there are some people he has decided to keep it from for now.
Feeling alone and uncertain?
Reams said, it is most important to find someone to talk to who is supportive and nonjudgmental. My own advice to those of you reading this would be to get yourself out of the compulsion trap and get yourself into treatment with qualified people.
Online or off, Dr.