We talked about it all the time: after the kids went to bed, when we got to work and on the streetcar on our way out to meet friends. You are trying to convey distress to a partner, or friend, or parent, and language renders you a signs to fortune.
Love will only confuse you even more.
Did you keep trying harder and harder thinking that if you cleaned a little better your husband would finally love you enough? And when they told it--no one laughed. Why do you always have to think about sex? It's just a reality based on years of observation.
I went to see my therapist today.
He'll look to blame you for the problems in the marriage. That is not to say that every move in a marriage must be explained. As long as you hear those words "I love you," you feel there is a chance if only you can change some of your ways.
The secretive enough to face up husband being gay calls, the unexplained missing hours, and the unexpected business appointments.
David is one of my best friends. I guess its up to you guys to have the tough talks, of is it an open relationship etc, can you trust him. Please be kind to yourself. I have never gone through his phone or anything before and now I feel ashamed I have done this.
I 'm not sure why we should be shocked when someone ends a marriage and comes out of the closet. And that he uses the hetero -married -with-kids shield to hide not only his sexuality, but other sides of him too - all for personal self centred, gain.